sexuality

sexuality- is an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions to men, women, both or neither.

so why are we on this subject all of a sudden? the reason being-- after my heart got crushed from the current AI results. kris allen won....and to think that danny gokey would be one of the finalists...that doesnt even matter...he shined thru on the show, and will get noticed. kris allen and adam lambert-- the finalists..i thought it was so damn predictable....i thought adam would win, no doubt about it...nothing else that has to be said...it was like an unspoken truth...a fact...so when i logged on to check the results..gosh, was i surprised...kris won...i referred to him as being 'gay'...not because he genuinely is, or that there is proof of him being gay at all....just that hes such a softie..dont get me wrong; nothing bad about that...his squeaky clean image...was abit too 'innocent'...so in the STAR paper...there was this article on adam lambert...speculation: he may be gay..MAY BE...why does everyone have to make such a huge deal about it? honestly speaking, would you rather have people hide and pretend, or stray away from what they are; just cause society cant accept the fact that they are gay..and we all go around saying 'just be who you are'...how big of a contradiction is that if they cant even show the world who they really are...onto the next thing..american idol is about talent...and if they were to go by the rules...and the sole purpose of the show...to discover new talent...despite of what or where people are or from...adam would have won....simon didnt even give kris a standing ovation when the winner was declared...guess im not the only one whos dissapointed...and another reason...or what i have inferred, as to how america chose to vote for chris instead...religious aspects....seeing as how gay marriages arent legalized...and how gay relationships are hardly accepted by society as well as religions (due to the fact that it is only right for a man to be with a woman and vice versa)...many conservative christians and all others who strongly oppose gay partnerships would have voted for chris....since i got all my points across, im stopping with the emo-ing....adam will get a contract....and he will probably do better than kris...just like how archuletta's better than cook...how fantasia, ruben, katherine and taylor just went missing after a couple of songs...this will turn out something like that. sometimes, life really isnt fair; now i believe in that a little bit more.